For us to have good relationships, we need to be committed and invest our time or our energy into them, for things to work out. There is unhealthy love and healthy love.
Unhealthy love - Two people using their emotions for each other to escape from reality
Healthy love - Two people helping each other become better people. They both support one another and they understand and trust each other. They have similar values but they can have different interests from one another
Don't fall in love too fast, because good things don't come by falling. relationships shouldn't be one sided liabilities, everybody is responsible and accountable to make things go well. There is nothing like the person who was meant to be. How long have you been waiting for Mr. Right or Mrs. Right? I tell you mister if you are waiting for something like that, then you will wait forever. Know that with proper help and guidance your partner can become a better person and the relationship will keep on improving.
In a relationship, you will always encounter problems and it you have the responsibility and accountability to solve them instead of ending the relationship. Stop running around, moving from partner to partner, hoping you will find the right person, Get committed to one person and then you will find happiness and freedom. You are the one to change for things to work out.
Good luck!
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